Monday, July 26, 2010

giveaway04:mamakuQis BIG giveaway

hye guys!
so the 4th giveaway before the grand giveaway by sis hana!
for me this giveaway quite tuff!!!hahaha...
becoz im still single maa...others sis married odi...
for sure they know the best..hihi...but im still in!hihi

tips to strengthen marriage


Marriage is one of the most important institutions and while being married is hard work and can have lots of ups and downs, there are many good reasons to be married. If you are experiencing some bumps in the road, here are some tips on ways to strengthen your marriage.

Nobody said that marriage is easy; in fact it takes a lot of work to stay committed, satisfied and interested in another person for such a long period of time. While people can grow apart throughout the years, you should always keep in mind and focus on the things that keep you together.

With the divorce rate about 50%, a successful marriage is a true achievement in today's world. In a good relationship, it's the little things that mean a lot. Here are 7 brief and simple things anyone can do every day.

  1. Give your partner a genuine compliment.

  2. Find something you can both share a laugh about.

  3. Give your partner a big hug.

  4. Ask your partner how their day went.

  5. Mention something about yourself that you both can laugh at.

  6. Show appreciation for how your partner handled a problem or got something done.

  7. Offer to go out of your way to do something for your partner.
owh ya..im sure all this 7 simple things have been doing by my parents..hihi..if ask me..im not married yet maa...hihi..so i want to share what i odi observed from my parents!

while i Google..i also found some tips that we should practice it always!quite easy and simple girls!

  • A good morning kiss is the best way to start the day. This will make your partner feel special. A great idea for strengthening the marriage.

  • Always wear you wedding ring. This would remind both of you about your commitments for each other.

  • Politeness is the key for a successful relationship. If you want to make your marriage successful then be polite to your partner.

  • You must be a good listener. Listen to your spouse attentively. This is one of the major techniques for strengthening your marriage.

  • You must encourage your spouse by frequent complements. This is a great way to strengthen your marriage.

  • Holding hands of your spouse has a great positive effect.

  • In order to make your spouse special, give him/her beautiful gifts.

  • Watching sunset is a great way to spend quality time together.

  • Smiling face is the best way to start a day. This will contribute a lot in strengthening your marriage.

  • You must be polite and gentle with your spouse.



  • all of this tips also being done by my parents...hihihi...from what i see..they still like a loving couple until now...hihi..my dad sangat suka manja2 nie dgn my mum..haha..terbalik kan..hihihi...n they always watching sunset together also...maklum la..umah ifa kan tepi pantai..so tiap2 hari my parents akan pegi pantai after my dad balik dari opis nie...sweet kan..=).. n then my mum for sure akan teman my dad even my dad just bakar sampah nie...


    nak tau x..lagi satu kan..sejak duduk di tganu nie...my parents mmg selalu keluar berdua je..=)..pegi pasar..pegi giant...pegi mydin..semua la...xde pun ajak kteorg ikut nie..hihihi..rilek je kuar berdua..cumil kan2..hihi..ifa pelik ah..sebab dulu selalunya adek2 ifa ikut skrg x nie..blur gak masa mule2 balik tganu nie..hihi..dulu kan ifa study kat labuan..mana ada kat umah..so xtau la..but for me..its so sweet tau..=)


    so itu la tips yang ifa dapat daripada my parents nie..hihihi..kalu nak tunggu dari ifa...kena tunggu ifa kawen nt ye..haha..=p..owh ye..n my parents xde gambar kawen..huhu..sebab my mum ckp..dorg juz nikah je nie...xde pun buat majlis2..n ifa x tanye lebih la..ifa paham juga..my dad bukannya keluarga yang senang..sgt susah..huhu...

    apa yang my dad ada skrg nie..semuanya hasil usaha keras my dad..my dad penah keje jadi buruh kasar di singapura..semata-mata nak sambung study di ukm..ye la..mana nak dapat duit nak sambung study kan..tue kena keje dulu..sebab tue my dad tak manjakan kami semua dgn melampau..kalau kami nak apa2..kami usaha sendiri juga sampai dapat beli..=)..tq so much ayah!u are a great dad!

    opss..melalut plak..hihi...nak letak picture kawen my parents xde...huhu...so utk bahagian personal pictures and vacation..ifa nak letak my pictures with en.bebeh ye kak...boleh kan2..hihi...=)..walaupun en.bebeh nie bff ifa..ifa sangat syg en.bebeh..sebab..die sgt memahami ifa..ntah la..cam sesuai nie kami 2 orang..haha...xpenah lagi ifa jumpe org yg macam en.bebeh..sebab tue susah nak lepas...hampir 3thn dah kami berkawan..lamanya...yang xsangka tue..sampai sekarang masih bff even kami berjauhan...huhuhu

    ifa nak letak gambar2 vacation kami yang terakhir bersama-sama nie..hihi..masa ifa konvo last year..=)..tapi jangan slh phm ye..my family semua ada la...en.bebeh siap lagi jadi driver kami nie..hihihi...cume masa picture-picture nie diambil kteorg kuar sama2 je..hihi..opss...tapi ade juga my sis,aziema..hihihi..=p..sangat rindu waktu ini..=)..ntah ble la dapat jumpe lagi..en.bebeh jauh tue naa sana di labuan...=)



    Remember, no marriage is constantly happy, perfect, and blissful. When times are tough, hang in there with each other. Get some alone time but don’t go into hiding. You need each other. It is easy to be there for each other in good times, but in hard times, this is when you really need one another. This is when you just plain do it whatever it is for the sake of the person you married and for your own sake as well. Please don’t give up. There is always, always hope..=)

    lastly..me nak borrow sis hidayah favourite quote!sangat menarik tau!xtipu!cube baca nie..=)

    "Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep… wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you’ re just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky he is to have YOU… The one who turns to his friends and says, thats her…"

    p/s: err..nak tau x..pe yang ada dlm quote nie...yang halal dibuat ah..en.bebeh buat kat saya la....die suka saya ke???blurry~

    12 comments:

    tiefazatie said...

    long journey for me b4 im marriage..=D

    mekchu said...

    feewit...
    amek masa nak kenali pasangan kita..

    tiefazatie said...

    mekchu: hihi...pasti..tp xde lagi..cmne tue??hihi

    mama zharfan said...

    ifa..bila nak kawin heheh
    dh ada perancangan ke arah itu ke :) jgn2 tunggu lama2,nanti lama2..dia dikebas org :p me suka lirik lagu tu :p

    tiefazatie said...

    mama zharfan: xde pun sis..haha...ifa nak cari keje dulu..keje dulu barang sthn dua..baru la..hihihi

    *∽ IZAN ∽* said...

    wah wah wahh.. leh tahan gak ilmu di dada mu yek tiefa..! good luck babehh!

    tiefazatie said...

    sis izan: hihi..xde la sis..bese2 je nie...ifa lum kawen...mana tau..hihi..tq sis..=)

    icee-yah said...

    HUHU..so sweet..suke quote yg kat bwh tu jugak...:)bf ic pon suke ic tak pki makeup.huhu

    Farah Y said...

    Hi Ifa! Salam kenal :) Thanks for dropping by the blog.

    Hope you will win the contest!

    tiefazatie said...

    icee: hihi...tq dear...yaa...xperlu makeup dasat2...baru la natual kan dear..=D..wish u happy2 selalu tau dear..

    farah y: hye sis...salam kenal juga..=D..insyaallah ade rezeki ade la sis..

    hana.basri said...

    nice... the best is the quote! *wink* i always remember a dear friend told me "he will be the ONE when you know it by your heart" bukan sbb dia hensem ke or u mmg suka banget ke, its the feeling created by Al-Mighty.. i call it "the Triggering Alarm"

    tiefazatie said...

    sis hana: waaaahhhh..me like it too sis...=)..tq yaa..

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